Varies by vendor: 15–20% for service staff, $50–$200 flat for most others
Wedding tips are expected mainly for people who work for someone else (catering staff, drivers, assistants) and are optional for business owners who set their own price. Check contracts first: many caterers already include an 18–22% service charge.
Put each amount in a labeled envelope before the day.
Prepare labeled envelopes in advance and give them to a trusted person (planner, best man, a parent) to hand out at the end of each vendor's work.
A caterer's "service charge" does not always go to the staff. Ask the caterer; if it doesn't, tip the staff separately.
Not required. A tip of $50–$200 or a glowing review is a common thank-you. Tip second shooters and assistants $50–$100 each.
For a religious officiant, a donation to the house of worship ($100–$500) is typical. A friend who officiates can get a thank-you gift instead.
Many couples budget around 10–15% of total vendor costs for tips. The calculator on this page builds a vendor-by-vendor figure.
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